Of Xtra time condoms and sprays

Hi Dr. Namrata,



I have a couple of queries please



1) Now for some years we have been getting condoms by the name of ‘Long Last’ n
‘Xtra time’ etc. And they have an extra chemical inside them apart from the
lubricant. (a) How does it work and will it harm us in any way if it is used on
a regular basis. (b) Many years ago there used to sprays, sold in the so called
imported goods markets and some chemists also used to stock them. Though I
never used any, but I wonder now; did they have a chemical similar to the so
called ‘extra-time’ condoms of today.



2) Without a condom; why is it that sometimes the same man can go on and on
with ‘it’ on some of the days and then sometimes it is absolutely below par
act. (All other things being same e.g. partner, location etc)



Thanks n Regards

Ans: 1.(A) You are right, these Xtra time condoms do contain
chemical in appropriate percentage and amount within them. The chemical most
often used is Lignocaine which is actually an anesthetic.

 Lignocaine 2-4 per cent is medically used
as local or surface anaesthesia. The injection that a doctor gives you just
before tooth extraction or stitching is from the same group with a different
generic name (Xylocaine). Actually it just numbs the tip of the penis (Called
Glans Penis) for 15 to 30 min. thereby one of the major organ from where erotic
sensation generate is blocked and this leads to prolonged orgasm. Though other erotic
senses, like visual, touch, thought, smell and auditory (sound) is intact, the actual
love making is for a longer period of time.

   In moderation, the use of this kind of chemical has no adverse reaction, or else
how could we doctors use it at all for whatever purpose it may be!!! ....these
same chemicals are used for delicate eye, ear surgeries too. Well, then excess
of anything is bad. Also there is a chance that you may get psychologically
dependent on this kind of condom. Alternate day use with normal condom used in
between days is a good option.

            In market these sprays are available as OTC (over the counter ) drugs for which you need
no prescription. Some reputed trade names are:- Stag, Golden Arrow, Black Stallion,
Power etc…

(B). The wonder sprays also contain
the same chemical in same proportion, mode of use being different. These are
sprayed on an erected exposed glans (with foreskin retracted back). 15 min.
should be given for the chemical to get thoroughly absorbed. Erection has to be
maintained thru continuous foreplay during that time. A slight bearable
tingling burning sensation is felt which goes off in 10 mins. The only drawback
is that you can’t do oral sex after penetration because of the bitter taste of
the chemical and the way the oral cavity gets numb is not a pleasant feeling…

            The spray works better than condoms because some amount of chemical get smeared with the
inner wall of vagina there by making it a bit numb too. Now both the partners
take longer than normal time to cum and the show goes on …and on… and on….

            The regular use of these sprays has similar implication as cited above…Young physically fit couples need not worry though.

            I advice some of my patients suffering with premature ejaculation or decreased libido
(urge to have sex) to use this spray judiciously to get desired result and it
work wonders. Use of this spray, along with vaginal tabs for better
lubrication, continuously for one week helps them to regain their lost
confidence that they can also ‘perform’ normally. Gradually I advice them to
taper off the use of spray to prevent psychological dependence. Some of my
patient came back and reported that they experienced ‘multiple orgasms’ for the
first time in their lives after using these sprays!!...and some others experienced
the pleasure of their early marriage days…wahi pehle jaisa ehsaas…

as of your 2^nd question….we doctors often say “performance
of sex is not dependent on what you have between your legs but what you have
between you ears”

            All other things being same e.g. partner, location etc., a
tensed, preoccupied, anxious, worried, sluggish and tired mind is bound to
effect your performance whereas with a calm, relaxed, happy, composed, serene and
romantic mind set you are sure to come out with flying colors.